God Bless us for that, right? Thanks, Esther. I will have more info on it up on the site by the end of the week ;). Thank you for the wonderful blog. Talk for a few minutes and walk away when youâre doneð they may not have the same interests id like to talk about but itâs still so refreshing! 10. In my late 40s now and still stumping the world by choosing to relish in my solitude, a few good friends and gloriously free status. So as you may have guessed from my name, I am not an introverted female. . So many peope expect you to do such things. Thanks for the suggestion, Dee. Itâs hard to believe now, but introversion was once a mostly misunderstood personality trait. Oh, and one of the latest disorders being hurled at introverts these days is Aspergers. (Also as far as introverted women on tv goes, I think that Rory Gilmore on Gilmore Girls is an introvert, since sheâs always reading. How many of you have heard a friend say, with a chuckle, âdad is pretty quiet, but my mom will talk your ear offâ? Just because she’s an introvert doesn’t mean she’s antisocial. I sometimes feel like there should be an in-depth book about Introverted Women, kind of like a manual on how one actually functions in this Worldâ¦. In order to make way for our louder, more extroverted alter ego, we must bury a part of ourselves. The general notion goes by the fact that introverts hate people, but no thatâs so not the case! Control over emotions. The Introvert Entrepreneur website also has some insightful blog posts ð. She gets nervous about meeting new people. With me, i also have to deal with full social discrimination, because of having had an actual mental/emotional disorder (and it was even by my own definition, a disorder). As for Twilight, I have to admit that as silly as the story sometimes is, I have a soft spot for it partly because Bella is an introvert who reads Jane Austen. No intimacy. As for dating, no I did not date much. I can completely understand what you mean about being moody after too much socializing. Like all introverts, she excels at observing. Oh and I agree with the other posts about needing alone time. I can definitely relate to this, especially to feeling jealous of extroverted women. 21. I was on the one hand, very well liked by my professors and on the other hand, a lot of my friends declared that âthere was no telling, what sheâll come up with nextâ. Itâs a hilarious (and yet awful for me) comedic situation. So yeah, I do wholeheartedly agree that men prefer the extrovert (even when sheâs not his type! I donât watch the Bachelor and Real Housewives. Every Cosmo article I read pushes the idea that women constantly want to talk more than their male partners, when it has never been true for me or a lot of my friends. Why itâs hard to believe Audrey Hepburn was an introvert. You may feel guilty about not saying or doing the rig, Introvert dating is challenging, especially when you overthink every aspect. I really enjoy living on my own and am realising that my alone time is becoming a precious comodity, for who knows, I may end up marrying and having kids. Now, compare them with introverted television heroines, such as ⦠ummm ⦠err ⦠gimme a second ⦠hmmm ⦠(see where Iâm going with this?). They really are the enemy of the introverted woman. Every dating book Iâve read (cause yes an Introvert is going to read up on HOW to go about it prior to attempting the steps -lol) tells me, the woman to FLIRT, make small talk and come up with all these witty remarks to express interest. I notice everything too. People often refer to introversion as if it were some sort of illness. Again, three seemingly negative traits the average feminine female. She tends to build invisible walls around herself that only a few select people are ever permitted entry. It may be a challenge if you’re more outgoing yourself, but you’ll have a much easier time if you know these things about her: It’s highly unlikely she’ll ever make the first move. Great blog! That is one major lesson that I have learnt, these past couple of years! I wished I could master the art of flirtation and fluffy banter as they had. Great to hear from you, lovely. ð. Bella Swan of Twilight immediately comes to mind. After being called everything from âweirdâ, âcomplexâ, âmoodyâ, âarrogantâ and âshyâ, to ânervousâ, in junior high and bombarded with highly intrusive questions and hurtful and ludicrous statements like âwhy are so quiet?â, âwhy are you so gloomy?â, âwhy are you so serious?â, âitâs good to have friendsâ, âsmile and the world smiles with youâ, âyou should come out of your shellâ, âwe are all here for youâ etc., I developed this reputation among a couple of my highly extroverted classmates in college (some of whom actually became my close friends), for being crazy (in a hilarious way) and a âgoofballâ. Must be a bunch of us like this out there. Do whatever you can to take the pressure off, because she’ll be stressed enough as it is. I stay home every weekend and drink by myself. Here's how to expre, It can be difficult for introverts to make new friends, especially in a pandemic. They would probably think she was crazy, depressed, or incredibly rude. Happily, women actually love introverted men. Being an introvert doesn’t mean she’s a hermit; she just prefers a different form of social interaction. I wish I had discovered this earlier but I am grateful to now be able to reach out to others who are just like me, and feel like I am not the outsider I once thought I was. Thank you for the encouragement, Jake. And I think 32 is a great age for a fresh start and a fresh view of yourself that is more loving and accepting. I guess it was probably my strong powers of observation (which IMHO, is one of the gifts of being introverted!) Although this approach can sometimes be disappointing- seeming introverts turn out to be not interested in talking to ME, that sort of thing) but on balance it has been a successful strategy for making new friends. Not to mention that fact that extroverted guys tend to always draw the attention of single girls in any room. Being a social introvert doesnât mean you canât stand people and would rather spend your weekends in a dark room. Yes to all of these comments! Its lovely to read these and learn that I am just a different type of normal. Unfortunately, itâs pretty difficult to relate to someone who divides her time equally between flirting with werewolves and making out with vampires. The problem beingâ¦I have reverted very far into the depths of introversion. I am so grateful to have found my tribe and realize that Iâm not a freak. If I donât follow my instincts and do whatever I can to get that time out, I get physically ill. Definite chemistry, but I am TERRIFIED of what dating him would mean. Cain leapt ⦠Maybe we need more introverted role models for grown women, too, I mentionâwe have Cain herself to look to, yes, but we need more! Introvert personality traits are characterized by purposefulness. Extroverts refuel by being with others. It is a harder path to take, however. Iâm like yeah, after youâve insulted me incessantly, and publicly, and Iâve tolerated it quietly and calmly, do you finally come to the realization that me not wanting to run my mouth isnât necessarily a negative. I strived to be more like them, and in some ways, I succeeded. Thatâs how I refuel.â Audrey Hepburn Parties of intimate friends of his; having to talk fluff with the wives of his friends. Another critical fact that I have learnt is that Introversion is another personality trait, like Extroversion. â¦so for me, i work towards self acceptance regardless of whether society pressures me to be. I can relate. I have however been struggling to be my self without bowing to the demands of my surroundings. The world is an introvertâs wonderland with possibilities everywhere. My dad was one of those men who retreated to his room when the house filled up with family and it was just a matter of fact. He is definitely interested, I am definitely interested (and itâs been over 5 years since Iâve had a boyfriend! Your voice will always be heard. Some people might see her as lazy and boring, but if she’s an introvert, she needs time to relax if she’s going to be productive. It depends on the person. Introverts, his basic definition said, prefer minimally stimulating environments, and they need time alone to recharge. I hope thatâs all right! I had one once. No matter if some one searches for his vital thing, Smirking: As I have grown older, I have become much more comfortable with and proud of my true personality, namely a Highly Sensitive Introvert, coupled with a little bit of private Extroversion! Sponsored: The best dating/relationships advice on the web. ), but the thought of matching up with him socially makes me so anxiety-riddled, I think I may have to nix it. This side of me would surface only for a select few. If you spend the day with other people, she may want to spend the next day lounging at home. First, let us define an introvert. And of course, thereâs Hermione Granger, whoâd far prefer to study than to go out partying. It only became a problem when I would have someone wonder why I wasnât wanting to âput myself out thereâ. I am an introvert, and thereâs nothing i would change about it. I have been in that situation so many times itâs unbelievable, and it takes me about a full day to recharge. 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But there is more. We are so damn interestingâ¦hahahaha. Introverts listen before they speak. Typically, introverted men are viewed as charming, intelligent, and mysterious. ð, Iâm very happy, having read your post. She needs her alone time. Then thereâs Zoe in Firefly (OK, Iâm on a Joss-streak here â I should probably come up with some others), Katniss from the Hunger Games, Max from Dark Angel, and Trinity from the Matrix series. And wondering what in the world happened and why I donât matter in anyoneâs life enough to be worthy of more than a peripheral meeting in their busy schedule. Lately, there seem to be more introverted females on the silver screen. And whatever she did, it was always âbecause she caredâ and/or I hadnât done it quite right. Hi Laura. Just click here…. But to get to that conclusion..again exhausting, socially depleting, and Iâd much rather not be bothered with YOU now that youâve decided Iâm a friendly gal. and my wicked sense of humour! One need only look at television role models to understand our plight. And, like Hepburn, we can be radiantly beautiful as well. But it will be easier in the long term. A confident introverted female doesnt need to flirt; she lets the guy, or girl know about her affinity by saying âHey, I like you. My tendency to âplease peopleâ, has led to severe mental exhaustion! Too much drama. -this confuses me, as to how ânormalâ it is. And itâs possible that Joan Watson on Elementary is an introvert too, since she seems to spend most of her free time in bed reading and is quite smart without feeling the need to be bubbly. It takes character, i think, to set boundaries and say âNo.â. And no, I am not the bookish cat lady- in fact, I am actually pretty damn sexy, and I am a dog person. . limited when itâs with other chatty women! Here are some introvert friendly tips. Introverts tend to observe, take in a lot of information, and think before they speak. Plus, how to tell where you fall on the spectrum. here i have got something for you all Now, i accept that truth and appreciate my self more. I find it much easier to socialise one-on-one or in small groups and I do not enjoy spending long hours engaged in small talk. BUT no, thatâs considered too dominant and aggressive. Your email address will not be published. They are witty, hilarious and nauseatingly endearing. It makes sense that books with depth would have characters of depth. Many introverts are highly self-critical. I think that it is fair to say that ânormalâ is largely judged by what happens to be acceptable and common in society. A Female Introvert Can Make A Great Leader: Strategies For Overcoming Leadership Dilemmas. Introverts are good listeners. My introvert mother was worn to a frazzle after she came home from a short hospital stay and my sibleys decided someone needed to be with her all the time. Here are 3 ways to. My man-friend relationships last longer when each of us lives separately. I took acting classes in high school and postsecondary since I was told I needed to âcome out of my shellâ and while they did help me to make friends and learn to express myself more, I was forever jealous of the charming girls who always got the roles I wanted. Introverts are better in small settings. They know when to cut their losses with a relationship. To be honest, there have been times when I used to try and be hilarious and goofy, just for the sake of it. ), My favorite fictional female is Katniss Everdeen from the Hunger Games â she is unapologetically introverted and I found myself identifying with her character throughout the series. I finally took some tough but needed action to relieve the stress and I am around family and longtime friends now. Marciaâs character on The Brady Bunch wasnât like that as I recall it (drama) but she definitely wasnât studious like Jan. But now Iâm married to a fellow introvert who loves me the way I am, especially that I donât want to force him to go to large parties and would rather read a book! Super. I think one major project with trying to create more introverted female characters in the media is the backlash that inevitably comes from women. Youâre words are so encouraging for me, because as it turns out,I am launching a very special ebook and workbook for single introverted women on June 1st. Consequently, they often must work double-time to overcome misperceptions, masquerading as extraverts to make others feel comfortable with them.' Most people are surprised to learn that Audrey Hepburn was an introvert. But I am an introverted woman. I dont make excuses anymore for taking it â its as crucial for my wellbeing as sleep and would I apologise for needing sleep? I guess what Iâm saying is that strong introverted characters ARE out there⦠but I suspect theyâre in shows/books that were written by introverts, and that werenât necessarily designed for mass appeal. Men on the other hand are much easier to talk to. BTW..we have only had a few phone callsâ¦we havenât even been out yet! Im starting to value the capacity for building true friendships (rather than expanding social networks) that seems inherent with introversion. Iâm not sure where she would fit in the I-E spectrum but what about Laura Ingalls, her mother and sister too of Little House On the Prairie? Thank you for sharing your struggle to adjust to your new environment. See, I actually listen and pay attention to people. Donât think youâre an introvert or extrovert? ð xo, Thank you for iterating something that has bothered me for so long! The hair colour DOES make a big difference to how you are perceived. Thatâs what weâll be covering today. Introverts like to observe more than they like to interact with other people, so they make great listeners. And not to mention difficult to please, especially to the extrovert. Meeting and mingling with new people can be a cause for anxiety in an introvert’s life. Unsupportive, unkind, take more than they give are traits that that drain and introverts already deplete quickly. Sometimes itâs easier to guess when it is ânormalâ and other people are just brainwashed into discriminating against introverted females/people. I had always been a push-over, but went through a short stage where my stock answer to anyone who questioned me was: âGFY.â I cried â no, SOBBED â every day for about 3 years. As a kid she used to make me feel that being introvert is a sin and she used to make me talk to everyone. The problem with classifying Virgos as introverts or extroverts is because they come in both flavors. It’s not very common for an introvert to voice her thoughts, feelings, and opinions without being prompted to do so. (Just like me) And sheâs such a great role model. She went beyond extroverted and was a fair bit narcissisticeverything was about her. Itâs also difficult for some to fathom that such a beautiful woman could be an introvert. She doesn’t have low self-esteem. I find so many truths in this article. DMCA Policy I first discovered my introversion at the age of 14 when my father, not known for his sensitivity, blurted out that he was an extrovert and I was an introvert. Iâve had the whole office sit in a meeting one day and analyze my personality making jokes about not being able to socialize. I think you make an excellent point, though I can tell you being stoic and aloof doesnât always work for the rest of us like it works for Clint Eastwood. An introverted man has several qualities that make him more likely to be honest. Emily of New Moon (the other series LM Montgomery wrote besides Anne of Green Gables). Instead of having loads of casual friends, sheâd rather have just a few really close friends in her life. Oh well too late now. I really enjoyed this post. I guess I am what people refer to as a private extrovert and public introvert. Being an introvert is a classic trait exhibited by beta females; they usually keep to themselves in a group, talking only when the need arises. If you want to know what she’s feeling, you need to ask. After numerous marriages and live-in boyfriends, I finally admitted to feeling trapped and irritable having another human living in my spaceâthus no kids and no more husbands. Ohhhh..Iâm so happy to have found this blog. That doesn’t mean you should never introduce her to your friends and family, but doing it all at once can be overwhelming for her. Ug. In any case, I doubt they would find her actions endearing. Thanks for putting that into words. I think it comes down to being willing to stay true to yourself, and not let the opinons, or perceptions of others compromise how your present yourself to the world. And, this s why i think certain mental âillnessesâ can be created by society to some extent. 2. Have difficulties in expressing themselves. The key is to understand why and use that knowledge in your own life. They help you through complicated and difficult love situations like deciphering mixed signals, getting over a breakup, or anything else you’re worried about. Itâs not! Kelsey Dykstra is a freelance writer based in Huntington Beach, CA. I hate the idea of someone trying to shape my nature to fit their ideal of what society believes I should be. I say . I saw how they radiated, felt alive, had a sparkle in their eyes, and men (both introverted and extroverted) seemed to adore them: âAaah, now thatâs a woman! It is pretty good. She is a great example of how quiet can be powerful and sexy. I often find myself in a position where I feel obligated to pretend to be extroverted, and then feel oddly guilty if I fight that obligation. Thereâs even a friend who asked me frankly, why are you so quiet? She favors small groups over large. Sometimes I worry I have a touch of social anxiety but the greater part of me says that its just a symptom of being too run down with forced socialising. At 32 I am now discovering who I am, and that it is nothing to be ashamed of. Please tell me if anyone relates to this, but as a woman I love to be chatty with other women, but my chattiness is SUPER. The terms introversion and extroversion (also often spelled extraversion) were popularized through the work of Carl Jung and later became central ⦠Consequently, it becomes more and more difficult to unearth the hidden treasures of our true personality. Making new friends can be daunting, even online. Introversion is a personality trait characterized by a focus on internal feelings rather than on external sources of stimulation. I think itâs a challenge for introverted women to move out of the stereoytypes and into discovering their strengths through being authentic as introverts but resources like your Introvert Spring are so helpful. Thanks for sharing your experience, Laura! Itâs almost incumbent on me to make sure that I take care, in a very fierce way, in order to be able to continue to write and to be the person I want to be.â â From my article Introverted, Shy or Highly Sensitive in the Arts http://highlysensitive.org/introverted-shy-highly-sensitive-arts/. I think judgmental, controlling, critical extrovert mothers can do a lot of damage to their introvert daughters. I canât even feign enthusiasm over such content and I really donât care about their kids grueling extracurricular schedule. In fact, I am of the opinion, that âSilence Is Goldenâ and that the world needs more Introverts, like us! but Iâve noticed I can not even tolerate 5 minutes of conversation sometimes ð. Iâve read most of it. Glad to see there are others, but Iâm very frustrated with my introverted self right now. Also, introvert personality traits include developed imagination. N you know what surprises me lately? No matter how much she likes (or eventually loves) you, she can’t spend every waking moment at your side. The reality is, introverted women come in all shapes, sizes and skin colors. I have to admit that extroverts, at the beginning, are just good at grabbing attention. And thanks for sharing your male perspective on this ð Hahah, being married to MTV sounds like a nightmare. She might be observing you from across the room, but the odds of her actually approaching you are pretty slim. I just smiled at that time, but at some occasions we had short nice conversations about politics and society and i guess that changes the way he sees me. Honesty. Buh bye. I have even been asked questions like âare you ill?â, accompanied by remarks and âobservationsâ like âyou seem to be a shadow of your old and cheerful self!â. It doesn’t mean she’s not interested; it just means she needs “me time”. Shame. I am struggling to adjust to a new living situation (have just moved countries, and am living with my partners family who I have just met as we moved here!). Now Iâm the confidante, and the pseudo counselor, and a great person to have in their corner. Check out Relationship Hero a site where highly trained relationship coaches get you, get your situation, and help you accomplish what you want. But I know who I am, so I knew what I wanted, and once I spotted him, it was a done deal (engaged in 3 months flat). I can relate to the green-eyed monster and the extroverted women. Itâs quite a struggle to live in surroundings that are ultra extroverted as I do. I like living with people I love, but find it challenging to find a balance between spending time with them and creating enough healthy space for âintrovertingâ time. One of the positives from this has been my developing contempt for narrowminded exclusion and sheer paranoia towards anything and anyobe different. In general, women are expected to be chatty, outgoing and to wear our hearts on our sleeves. When it comes to an introverted woman, it’s just better if you make the first move. Femininity is not limited to quietness anymore than to bubbliness. Weâre also happy cat owners and are content to be childfree, so that I donât have to be a stressed mom trying to deal with all that crazy stuff. We donât waste time investing in people who are not worth our timeâ¦do we? And, maybe this, more than anything is the real issue. Said gentleman has even gone so far as to tell me that âOh he did WANT to date meâ. Why is it okay for grandpa to claim his solitude, but not good olâ grams? ð Itâs very soothing. All of my academic achievement, excelling in piano, and so on just werenât important if I didnât have that social element and girly obsession with my appearance to others. Eleanor from Sense and Sensibility. Hence, I sometimes, couldnât afford to retreat into my own personal space, to get away from highly energy draining social situations! Not only am I an introvert, but I am rather sarcastic and cynical kind of humor and delivery. **eyeroll** She was great at pointing out othersâ mistakes while justifying hers as having good motivation. It drove me nuts. They prefer quality one-on-one time to hanging out with lots of people at once. So Iâm 0 for 2, not appreciated at work and lacking in datesâ¦Good grief Charlie Brown! Boy Virgos tend toward introversion and are often the first to leave the party, leaving the girl Virgo behind to stand on top of the coffee table and lip-synch to the music while the crowd cheers. I refuse to participate in pot lucks at work, walking into the bank gives me anxietyâ¦I just want to get back to my car. Not all â let me preface this comment with that- but this particular extroverted lady that he has attached himself too, is also FULL of drama, and said gentleman who now considers me the âgood friendâ conveys to me his discomforts with his present companion. Thank you!!!! I also related well to Janâs middle child frustrations, though as an introvert, feeling invisible was kind of good. LOLâ¦Had to vent. Coupled with my introversion, were my Highly Sensitive personality traits. Psychologist Carl Jung was the first person to describe these two personality extremes back in the 1960s. But, they are also viewed as powerful, dominant, and aloof. Western society tends to be more accepting of stoic men than their female counterparts. Iâve seen both movies and read the first book. Although a quick google search will deem an introverted individual to be âa shy, reticent personâ, there is much more to it than that. ð. They might come across as quiet people but donât mistake this trait as a weakness. Love this an introverted woman. This website has been absolutely refreshing and reassuring! Your email address will not be published. The whole blonde obsession of the 1970s was awful. Weâre analytical and reflective, and weâre often interested in discovering the deeper meaning or underlying pattern behind events. When I attempted, for several decades, to be the ideal, I put energy i,to superficial interactions, flirting, not being âso seriousâ, etc, I got a lot of superficiality back. Thank goodness you are doing this. The introverted female is a species all her own. I used to turn my darkest shade of green-eyed monster when gazing upon extroverted women. I couldnât stand the character of Rachel on Friends. There is a lot of talk these days about the distinction between extroverts and introverts, which is often treated as an either/or trait. So take it slow, introduce her to just a few people at a time, and make sure she’s not the constant center of attention. ð. At first I refused to believe that was the case, because it made me sound like a horrible, anti-social grump. But her mom is definitely an extrovert. Our quiet virtues can easily be overshadowed by the dazzling, in-your-face charm of outgoing women. ð, Thank you again to everyoneâs comments ð, Rose, I love how you said your introversion has âblossomedâ â great choice of words! Many people wrongly envision female introverts as pasty white spinster types who own at least three cats. 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