They simply take the report as correct and proceed. Prior to finding the first sign of red blood on 12/3, had three blood draws to test my hcg levels. My wife is devastated because she had a miscarriage two years ago. Thank you for sharing your story. I was told my options at the drs office. On Friday, 12/13, at 1:30, I received a phone call from the original NP and she told me that I am plateauing and will be miscarrying soon. Then the doctor was so cavalier about it all, said it was a miscarriage, nonviable, no heartbeat, and I needed to schedule a D&C as soon as possible. I have the same gut instinct that my doctor has my weeks off. I hope the private scan provides more answers! I needed them. The second ultrasound made it clear to me, before they said anything, what was going on: My body was still being pregnantgrowing a bigger amniotic sac and longer umbilical cord, continuing to produce HCG and make me queasybut the embryo was dead; it was much too small for the sac and just lying there in a way that looked like a tiny dead body, whereas 12 days earlier it had looked like it might be alive. It just means that youre already a mama in your heart and hoping for the best! I said thats great news and we are seeing exactly was Dr. S said we would this week. for cpl days i called the dr. and went in. And so while I wait, Ill keep googling. After trying for years, we decided to go to a fertility specialist to help us start a family. I guess this is what it's like for most women who are pregnant after loss; pregnant with rainbow babies. Update: Im so sorry youre going through this! You are in our thoughts and prayers!! <3 My prayers are with you. They took my blood and ordered me to come back Wednesday to repeat my blood. ", I felt my heart drop. Im not spotting or in any pain. At that point I'm not sure who looked more shocked or happier, them or me. I love the blogosphere! So we parted ways and 9 months later gave birth to a beautiful, PERFECT baby girl. Your situation sounds extremely similar to that of one of my best friends. How are you feeling about Nancy? Yes! I stopped spotting u.til about 11pm so I decided to call the on call doctor to get some reassurance. Now I have even more hope. She mentioned it could take weeks. Wow! I see this was in April. A week later i started spotting just a little but didnt worry bc i had that twice before and it ended up being nothing. I was right to wait and this why I say to follow your gut instinct. We saw a lump or small mass inside the sack, but no baby and no heartbeat, they measured me to be 6wks, 4 days. Please keep us updated. Sending you so many sticky baby vibes!!! I was pregnancy again a couple of months later and medically it was a dream pregnancy obviously just very worrying. I go back tomorrow to test again and will update. They said there is a baby in there but the sack looks to be 8 weeks but not the baby which meant possible miscarriage, and that we are to check back with them next week. In any case, youre so right about going with your instincts. You should absolutely lodge a formal complaint though unbelievable. Feeling numb, we listened as the nurse said we could either wait for "it" to happen naturally or they could arrange for a dilation and curettage procedure (D&C). Pretty much we couldnt ask any questions during the process which made it very awkward. It wasnt a lot and I had tried to admit myself to the ER but they were just too full and I had to be at work at 5 am the next morning so I went back to my hotel room. My Husband said could you be pregnant which I replied no chance remember what the Doctor said and I also have no signs. A molar pregnancy is when the mother's chromosomes are somehow 'lost' and the father's chromosomes are duplicated. Thank u for your help! This is my second pregnancy, and I had no problems with my first. I am currently going through the same situation. He called me this morning after running my blood work and told me my levels are high enough he should have seen something. I am absolutely devastated, I know there is a chance it could be a miscarriage. I owuld like just a little hope that something positive may still come out of this. I never imagined it would be like this After 11/23 the spotting got progressively more intense and eventually turned to red blood on the evening of 12/3. I went through this recently. I dont feel like anything is wrong. I am so glad you questioned it and pushed for more testing and I am happy to hear everything went ok. That breaks my heart to wonder how many women were told they were miscarrying when they really were not and just went with medication/surgical help and could have ended up with a healthy pregnancy otherwise I dont know what to think after reading this. I had to double check her toes, make sure she had two eyes, etc. or could a miracle happen? Do you think the next time i get pregnant i will have a succesfull pregnancy? The doctor asked me to come back two weeks later. Betsy recently posted..Miscarriage? I have no idea how that works.. Good for you for following your intuition and taking care of yourself! So, the options were to do multiple rounds of IVF with my own eggs (at about a 2-4% success rate) or pony up the cash to up our chances more quickly. If you could post your story there after you see how things go, that would be great. If the sac was still empty, I wanted to go ahead and take medication to help pass the egg so my husband and I could start trying again. So confused! I needed to read your story! And after he did a vaginal ultra sound he said he is 99% sure we are going to loose the baby. The lack of compassion you have experienced just disgusts me. So anyone reading this keep your hope alive anything is possible even when no-one gives you answers or hope believe and trust in god! Dates can be off. I am a mother of 4 which this is my 5th pregnancy! If i was further wouldnt the april 3 test come back positive? I had never been thru this before i was in total shock. Im so happy to hear this! But just to please him I did a test. They are a large, hospital-based practice, and to me they seemed very impersonal and medically-oriented, the opposite of what I want in midwife care! I am so sorry you had to go through all that, but it was worth trusting your instincts. Wow, so I am literally going through this right now. Im not sure if that means much but it leaves me with some concern as to weather or not he is accurate so I chose not to have any surgical or medical treatment because I feel strongly that he is wrong. I go in on Wednesday. Im glad i didnt do the d&c and I switched doctors. im happy you went against their opinion im going through this right now hoping for the best while the doctor is aggravated about retesting i still feel the need to look at ever angle rather then rush to abort this is my first pregnancy and im supposed to be excited but when i visit the doctor all i feel is dread because they keep trying to talk me into medical miscarriage. She measured the fetal pole (secretly, by the way I feel like she didnt want me to see what she was doing) and then printed out the sonogram photos. Misaligned Pelvis and Infertility, Nursing Normalsmy words of wisdom for World Breastfeeding Week, Explaining How Santa Isnt Everywhere to JDaniel, Ten things Ive learned and unlearned about marriage, Win 100% Biodegradable Eco Footwear from 1Moment 5 Winners! They repeated the ultrasound over and over. With my last pregnancy, I felt the nausea around five weeks. Here is my story- i was on bc pill for 7 years and decided to stop preventing this march (2013) so my lmp was march 5 (but this was the period during my last pack of bc pills). I went for an transvaginal ultrasound yesterday and was excited because we were able to see a heartbeat, but we couldnt hear it yet. I was definitely not doubling as expected. We just had an ultra sound done yesterday 12/03/13 and the ultra sound doctor said exactly what was said to you. Well be thinking of you! Exciting news!! Your story will help many. Anyone ever heard of anything like this? The story that you told sounded so similar to mine. The urine test came back inconclusive. She just looked at me with that same grim look, dooming the death of my unborn child. My past experience told me that if I was going to miscarry, I couldnt do anything about it at this stage (my hormone levels were where they wanted to see them) and worrying would only make me feel worse. The midwife I saw at one visit (we had to see all of the midwives in the practice) could not find the heart beat with the doppler, which I knew was completely normal before 12 weeks, but she placed her hand on my shoulder and stiffly informed me I may have miscarried. Thanks for sharing and funny that were both named Charise! An ultrasound technician did do the ultrasounds after the midwife couldnt find them with the ultrasound herself. However, all does not end well. I am going through something similar now. to see baby and I could immediately see her concern. She did a transvaginal ultrasound. I still have no answers. Ill be thinking of you. I will inform you tomorrow what the bloods say i am praying for good news. I told her I was 3 months along, but when they couldnt find the heartbeat, they did an ultrasound. I really didn't want to hear his excuses. Thank you for sharing with us, and we will be keeping you in our thoughts and sending you big hugs. I have taken four at home tests, all great brands. My doctor wanted to schedule a D&C asap, she was concerned and wanted to be safe. 10 Green and Natural Gifts for a One Year Old 10. Hello, I just wanted to provide an update since my last comment on 11/23. You would think that would have made me feel better but ALL Ive been thinking is then why is it SO small? Am I going to be a Mom or not UGH! I held out a bit of hope that the HCG tests would tell a different story than Nancys version. Im at a loss. This would never have happened had a registered Ultrasound tech done the exam and had a Radiologist go through the exam and make a diagnoses, no guessing by midwives, no disrespect Nancy. Live. Then 4wks later same again, NOPE! .wish me luck and much needed miracle! Betsy I'm probably one of the only mothers who has been relieved to have a breech baby and an early C-section, but honestly I just wanted to have her out alive. She had to bring in another tech to confirm her findings because she was a little confused at first. ), How to Apply Marie Kondo's Techniques to Parenting. I think it was more a matter of the baby not growing at the rate or dates they anticipated. Maybe that sounds crazy, but it seemed to be the case for me and all of my friends who experienced pregnancy loss. sorry it took e so long i kind of gave up hop on this site due to never getting a response and seeing her respond so quickly to others just made me feel some kind of way. But only to find out i am considered to have a miscarriage they have done 3 ultrasounds so far first two were only seeing a gestational sac and yolk sac no embryo or heart beat. I immediately liked the midwife (Ill call her Nancy) that I met with at that first appointment. We'll be sending the doctor a report, but would you like to ring and tell him, or would you like us to?". During the transvaginal ultrasound, I could immediately tell that Nancy did not like what she was seeing on the screen. The funny thing is that I really wanted midwife care again, which is the only reason I am even at this practice, but this doctor is much more me than any of the midwives I have met there so far. He is amazing and the miracle worker of all things. No one knows our bodies better than we do! Thanks Kym for your posts. Are you aware of women with shrinking gestational sacs? Thinking of you. I am glad your story turned out as well as mine. yesterday was my 1st sonogram. Which apparently makes delivery more challenging according to my primary care physician who used to deliver babies. The doubling rate of the HCG was about 126 hours and she wanted it to double every 48 hours. Thank God for the support of my friends and family. Ill be thinking of you. Apparently after researching myself, this side (.29cm) is normal and everything is good. It was scary to say the least. trying to stay positive but I got the same response from our sonographer lady! I feel like there is a remote possibility that my baby has survived the bleeding or that another egg was fertilized a few weeks later when I had intercourse after finding out I was already pregnant. Copyright 2021 I Thought I Knew Mama | Designed By Stephanie Mullins, How to Help Your Anxious Child with School Reopening, 5 Ways to Help Kids with Coronavirus Related Anxiety, 8 Life Skills to Teach Your Kids During Quarantine, A Palm Sunday Reflection in the Time of COVID-19, Valentine's Day is the New New Years Day for Women Over 40, The Best Things to Do in Boston with Kids. Increased but not doubled. You have been such an encouragement. I have a daughter who is two so shes my little blessing. Oh my goodness, Betsy! mama instincts are super strong and good thing you listened ! Thank you so much for sharing your story. Sometimes that means pushing medical professionals to go beyond what they might routinely do and thats ok. Doctors are human and make mistakes and you are the customer, just like with any service industry. My doctor said the babys BMP was 80 and that it was really low so the odds of miscarriage are very high. She requested that I take a 3rd test and on 12/2 my levels had gone up to 199. Ultrasound an hour later confirmed 24.5wks. Your health is your highest priority, without it, you have nothing else. I know that most of the time a miscarriage is just that and my situation is rare, but if you find yourself in this terrible, heartbreaking situation, don't rush into a decision. I'd love to say that the pregnancy was problem free, and medically it was, but having already "lost" her once made it an emotional horror story. She is now a 13-month-old and is snuggled up against my leg! No matter where you are in your pregnancy, it always hurts to lose your baby. That explained why my hCG levels were still rising. He came in and was extremely optimistic. Yes, I had a misdiagnosed miscarriage. Will be sure to update next week!! I believe this NP is upset that I havent miscarried yet and is trying everything she can to be correct. The Dr. told me last Weds at 9 weeks. Whats the big deal? 3rd pregnancy after being told for 7 years no more children, Any advice still TTC had ectopic laprascopy on oct29,2013 that day my life changed. I just want someone to sit down and explain everything instead of rushing me and telling me I will miscarriage. I have felt pretty much every emotion you can think of this past week. When I had a severe bleed they assumed to be a miscarriage. I just started a new job in November, I am going to return to work since Ive been off all week being an emotional wreck. I ended up getting a call from my dr. saying that it looks like it was going to be a spontaneous abortion. Thanks for the update, Nikki! 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